Last month, I ran into a woman I used to hang out with in college. After making some small talk, she mentioned that she was going through a difficult divorce. The last time I saw this woman she had just come from her honeymoon with her self-proclaimed 'prince charming". At the time, I agreed with her. The woman's then husband had all the makings of royalty. He was a 50 something guy who was athletic, smart, handsome and well heeled. An affable gentleman in every sense of the word. Pam had claimed he had rescued her from a life of lonliness and boredom. However, a year into the marriage she discovered he was cheating on her with a 27 year old who worked in his office. Prince Charming had turned into the Grinch. She stated to me that she shouldn't have been surprised because, "Prince Charming doesn't exist when you're over 40".
Does turning 40 somehow make us less, attractive, sexy, intelligent, or desirable? I think not. Women over 40 can be super attractive, sexy, intelligent and desirable . Through a system of trial and error and experience, we have learned what looks good on us and what doesn't. We know what turns a man's head and what pleases both him and ourselves in the bedroom.
As for Prince Charming, he is out there for women over forty. Frogs can appear at any age, and if you are over 40, chances are you have kissed your share of them. Just remember that it is more important to be your best you. And as for the Princes out there, "watch out!!"
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