When you look in the mirror do you see that hip fashionista who turned heads everywhere she went, or do you see someone you barely recognize? As we grow older, we sometimes let ourselves go. Usually this change is gradual but, with others it happens virtually overnight. Here are some warning signs that you are on the fast track to being frumpy.
1. You haven’t bought any new clothes in over a year.
It’s true some clothes are timeless, but others are just OLD. Not only do clothes go out of style but, the way they fit you can also change as you gain or lose weight. The jacket you bought 10 years ago with the monster shoulder pads just isn’t going to look flattering on you today. Make a habit of going through your closet seasonally or at least twice a year to see what doesn’t fit, needs repair or is dated. Discard or donate these items to charity. Then purchase some updated replacements to keep you and your wardrobe looking fresh.
2. You’ve been wearing the same hairstyle for 20 years.
Are you still wearing the beehive, teased hair or the 80’s shag? Or maybe you are 50 years old and haven’t cut your hair since college. The fact is that as your body changes so should your hairstyle. Your hair should be flattering and emphasize your facial attributes. It should also reflect your current style not the style of bygone days.
3. You wear your wear your gym clothes out to dinner.
Certain clothes are designed to be worn certain places. Gym shorts and sports bras are designed for exercising not, for enjoying dinner at your favorite restaurant. Designate outfits in your closet for nights out, casual outings, or work. Stick to this plan to look your best.
4. You wear too much or too little makeup
Make up has gotten a bad rap, mainly, because most women don’t know how to wear it. Some of us pile it on, making our faces look older or clownish. Other women avoid makeup altogether resulting in a plain or dull face. Makeup is designed to accentuate your natural beauty. Seek advice on how to wear it from magazines or department store makeup artists.
Hi Leslie,
Thank you for your comments and I loved reading your blogs. You are a beautiful woman and so smart. I know you'll be very successful at whatever you do.
Your blog about the older woman/younger man is so true. From my own experience,(although I'm more than 10 years older than you), there is no question that those experiences changed me. I learned so much about myself in the process and they have enhanced my life.
I feel that I have become far more spontaneous and freer to live my life less "role-bound" --and for that I am most grateful.
All good things to you, Leslie. Stay in touch!
Talia
Posted by: Talia Murphy | August 28, 2008 at 07:17 PM